fix(sns): race condition exists between sqs queue policy and sns subscription (aws#21797)

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Fixes aws#20665 by adding a dependency to sqs policy for sns subscriptions.
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This is a follow up to aws#21259, which got closed for failing for too long

Author: jonnekaunisto

packages/@aws-cdk-containers/ecs-service-extensions/test/publish-subscribe.integ.snapshot/aws-ecs-integ.template.json

@@ -91,6 +91,7 @@
   },
   "SubscriberQueuenestedstackstestNestedStack1topic089C5EB1396F65087": {
    "Type": "AWS::SNS::Subscription",
+   "DependsOn": "SubscriberQueuePolicy25A0799E",
    "Properties": {
     "Protocol": "sqs",
     "TopicArn": {
@@ -109,6 +110,7 @@
   },
   "SubscriberQueuenestedstackstestNestedStack1topic1150E1A929A2C267E": {
    "Type": "AWS::SNS::Subscription",
+   "DependsOn": "SubscriberQueuePolicy25A0799E",
    "Properties": {
     "Protocol": "sqs",
     "TopicArn": {
@@ -127,6 +129,7 @@
   },
   "SubscriberQueuenestedstackstestNestedStack1topic209B8719858511914": {
    "Type": "AWS::SNS::Subscription",
+   "DependsOn": "SubscriberQueuePolicy25A0799E",
    "Properties": {
     "Protocol": "sqs",
     "TopicArn": {

packages/@aws-cdk/aws-cloudformation/test/nested-stack.integ.snapshot/nested-stacks-test.template.json

@@ -396,6 +396,7 @@
   },
   "MyQueueawscdkcodebuildeventsMyTopic550011DCF72DE3ED": {
    "Type": "AWS::SNS::Subscription",
+   "DependsOn": "MyQueuePolicy6BBEDDAC",
    "Properties": {
     "Protocol": "sqs",
     "TopicArn": {

packages/@aws-cdk/aws-events-targets/test/codebuild/project-events.integ.snapshot/aws-cdk-codebuild-events.template.json

@@ -94,6 +94,7 @@
   },
   "MyQueueawscdksnseventtargetMyTopicB7575CD87304D383": {
    "Type": "AWS::SNS::Subscription",
+   "DependsOn": "MyQueuePolicy6BBEDDAC",
    "Properties": {
     "Protocol": "sqs",
     "TopicArn": {

packages/@aws-cdk/aws-events-targets/test/sns/sns-event-rule-target.integ.snapshot/aws-cdk-sns-event-target.template.json

@@ -40,14 +40,14 @@ export class SqsSubscription implements sns.ITopicSubscription {
 
     // add a statement to the queue resource policy which allows this topic
     // to send messages to the queue.
-    this.queue.addToResourcePolicy(new iam.PolicyStatement({
+    const queuePolicyDependable = this.queue.addToResourcePolicy(new iam.PolicyStatement({
       resources: [this.queue.queueArn],
       actions: ['sqs:SendMessage'],
       principals: [snsServicePrincipal],
       conditions: {
         ArnEquals: { 'aws:SourceArn': topic.topicArn },
       },
-    }));
+    })).policyDependable;
 
     // if the queue is encrypted, add a statement to the key resource policy
     // which allows this topic to decrypt KMS keys
@@ -77,6 +77,7 @@ export class SqsSubscription implements sns.ITopicSubscription {
       filterPolicy: this.props.filterPolicy,
       region: this.regionFromArn(topic),
       deadLetterQueue: this.props.deadLetterQueue,
+      subscriptionDependency: queuePolicyDependable,
     };
   }