spawn without hearbeats

[qnikst]

It looks like n-t-tcp does not implement heartbeats, nor does the n-t documentation ask for that. Yet, spawn seems to rely on monitoring to learn of disconnections.

spawn uses delay, which won't run the spawned process unless it gets either a monitor notification or an ack from the caller. On the other hand, the caller can complete the call to spawn before the ack to delay arrives. If a disconnection occurs at this point, the spawned process will block indefinitely.

A simple fix is to stop using delay, and ask the user to take extra precautions if the spawned action is killing the remote node.

A simple workaround is to have the user use spawnAsync directly.

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If call starts using cpDelayed as proposed in #183, the spawned process could block indefinitely if there is a disconnection. The call to call would not complete, but there wouldn't be a way to interrupt it while avoiding leaking the spawned process.

A fix for this could be to give up monitoring the spawned process and avoid using cpDelayed.

Thoughts?

[qnikst]

Dublicate of #197