doc: clarify ObjectWrap weak ref behavior

Refs: nodejs/node#42461

We currently defer finalizer callbacks until the loop is idle.
Warn users that the weak reference on ObjectWraps
isn't guaranteed to be valid just because the object hasn't
been finalized (destructed) yet.

Author: mildsunrise

doc/object_wrap.md

@@ -16,6 +16,10 @@ be directly invoked from JavaScript. The **wrap** word refers to a way of
 grouping methods and state of the class because it will be necessary write
 custom code to bridge each of your C++ class methods.
 
+**Caution:** When the JavaScript object is garbage collected, the call to the
+C++ destructor may be deferred until a later time. Within that period,
+`Value()` will return an empty value.
+
 ## Example
 
 ```cpp