[refactor] Move all configure-related methods to a function

[jgsogo]

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This PR moves all the config, config_options and configure calls into a function run_configure_method. In this function I'll implement the try/catch for the new build-exception:

1. it keeps exactly the same logic from graph_builder.py (logic from _config_node function)
2. it adds calls to for logic under load_consumer_conanfile function.

IMO it is safe to introduce (2) as it is introducing calls to config() (which is already deprecated and I don't know any recipe using it) and another call to conanfile.options.propagate_upstream but it will execute nothing as all its arguments are None.

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I can keep existing behavior, but I prefer not to add an if/else to this new run_configure_method function.